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Unraveling the Intricate Layers: Exploring the Intersection of Kink, BDSM, and Trauma in Intimate Relationships

Devin Pinkston (she/her)

Oct 212 min read

Unraveling the Intricate Layers: Exploring the Intersection of Kink, BDSM, and Trauma in Intimate Relationships

Understand the connection of kink, BDSM, and trauma in your own intimate relationships to tap into healing and growth.

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Local LGBTQIA+ Resources in Grand Junction and on the Western Slope

Devin Pinkston (she/her)

Aug 129 min read

Local LGBTQIA+ Resources in Grand Junction and on the Western Slope

LGBTQ+ and trans friendly mental health, medical providers, faith based churches, and others resources in Grand Junction CO

3,972 views3 comments

5 Things to Consider in Open Relationships

Devin Pinkston (she/her)

Feb 124 min read

5 Things to Consider in Open Relationships

If you're thinking about venturing into the world of polyamory or non-monogamy, here are some tips and thoughts to consider from our...

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Devin Pinkston (she/her)

Jan 23 min read

Tips to Manage Personal Bias

Let's face it, we're all set in certain ways of thinking, patterns, behaviors, and in communicaiton. Whether you consider yourself to be...

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Transgender and Other LGBTQIA+ Resources: Denver, Fort Collins, Boulder, Colorado Springs

Devin Pinkston, LPC

Jun 21, 20232 min read

Transgender and Other LGBTQIA+ Resources: Denver, Fort Collins, Boulder, Colorado Springs

We often get inquiries from our clients and those seeking trans-affirming and other LGBTQIA+ care not only on the western slope of...

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Gender Queer: A Memoir by Maia Kobabe Reviewed by Jesse Clark

Jesse Clark, BSW

May 22, 20232 min read

Gender Queer: A Memoir by Maia Kobabe Reviewed by Jesse Clark

Gender Queer is a graphic novel based on the life of the author, Maia Kobabe, and their journey of coming out as gender queer and on the...

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"This Book is Gay" by Juno Dawson, Reviewed by Jesse Clark

Jesse Clark, BSW

May 9, 20232 min read

"This Book is Gay" by Juno Dawson, Reviewed by Jesse Clark

This Book is Gay by Juno Dawson explores the spectrum of queer experiences through topics such as identity, sex, relationships, policies,...

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Spontaneous Desire Vs. Responsive Desire: Sex Therapy Addition

Devin Pinkston, LPC

Jul 20, 20223 min read

Spontaneous Desire Vs. Responsive Desire: Sex Therapy Addition

Intimacy struggles are real! Whether it's a solo activity or partner trip, understanding your body's response, wants, and needs can be...

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How to Set Boundaries with Toxic People in 4 Steps

Devin Pinkston, LPC

Jan 19, 20222 min read

How to Set Boundaries with Toxic People in 4 Steps

What is a boundary, how do you set it, and what are the boundary types? Explore all of this and more in 4 simple steps!

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Devin Pinkston, LPC

Oct 19, 20214 min read

When to Hold On and When to Let Go

You can't stop arguing but don't know how to make it stop either. Identify the 4 horsemen of relationship demise and when to call it quits.

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Online Group Drama. How to Set Boundaries for Yourself in Transgender and Non-binary Forums

Devin Pinkston, LPC

Feb 4, 20214 min read

Online Group Drama. How to Set Boundaries for Yourself in Transgender and Non-binary Forums

As a therapist and active member in my local western slope community, I've had many conversations privately with close friends and...

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Keep the Fire Alive After Being Home Together All Year. 7 Recommended Tips from a Therapist

Devin Pinkston, LPC

Dec 19, 20203 min read

Keep the Fire Alive After Being Home Together All Year. 7 Recommended Tips from a Therapist

Another holiday season is upon us, and yet this year is unlike any other we've encountered with the introduction and long overstay of...

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To the Survivors of COVID-19. What's Next?

Devin Pinkston, LPC

Apr 24, 20202 min read

To the Survivors of COVID-19. What's Next?

There's not much more that I feel I need to say or that I can add in a novel way about what's unfolded over the past two months globally...

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What your Therapist Wants to Tell You but Can't

Devin Pinkston, Grand Junction CO

Dec 26, 20195 min read

What your Therapist Wants to Tell You but Can't

Words of wisdom we've learned from our clients based on family dynamics, romantic relationships, sex/intimacy, gender identity, and over

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Get Through the Holiday Blues When You're LGBTQ+

Devin Pinkston, LPC

Dec 4, 20194 min read

Get Through the Holiday Blues When You're LGBTQ+

Don't let the holidays be a burden if you or someone you know is LGBTQ. Get the tools you need to weather the depression and come out on

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Back to School Essentials-Trans and Non-Binary Edition

Devin Pinkston, Grand Junction CO

Aug 9, 20193 min read

Back to School Essentials-Trans and Non-Binary Edition

Gender related essentials for trans and non binary people to feel more comfortable in their own skin!

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Devin Pinkston, Grand Junction CO

Jun 13, 20193 min read

To Stealth, or Not to Stealth?

Let's dive into the concepts of transgender individuals living stealth lives in certain situations, all situations, or none at all. What

1,308 views1 comment

Devin Pinkston, Grand Junction CO

Apr 24, 20192 min read

Transition and Discrimination

Becoming a minority from a majority isn't easy for many of those who are White and transgender or gender non-conforming. Understanding h

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Have You Received Comprehensive Sex Education?

Devin Pinkston, Grand Junction CO

Feb 14, 20193 min read

Have You Received Comprehensive Sex Education?

This article addresses a gap in our parental and educational system when it comes to providing knowledge about sex, love, intimacy, pleasure

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Is it Harder to Be a Trans Woman Than a Trans Male?

Devin Pinkston, Grand Junction CO

Jan 8, 20193 min read

Is it Harder to Be a Trans Woman Than a Trans Male?

Discussion of the differences in how trans women and trans men move throughout the world, and some of the specific challenges trans women fa

1,545 views1 comment

Devin Pinkston (she/her)

Oct 212 min read

Unraveling the Intricate Layers: Exploring the Intersection of Kink, BDSM, and Trauma in Intimate Relationships

Understand the connection of kink, BDSM, and trauma in your own intimate relationships to tap into healing and growth.

59 views1 comment

Devin Pinkston (she/her)

Aug 129 min read

Local LGBTQIA+ Resources in Grand Junction and on the Western Slope

LGBTQ+ and trans friendly mental health, medical providers, faith based churches, and others resources in Grand Junction CO

3,972 views3 comments

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